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Sexuality Communication: Listening is Important for Sexuality!

Communication includes 2 very specific elements:  1) a participant who is speaking; 2) a participant who is listening. Often, the participants change-off these functions.  The contribution of BOTH of these is essential to effective communication!

The following are 3 Tips to Help You Be a More-effective Listener:                                                                                 1) Maintain a Loving, Caring Demeanor — let your partner KNOW by your body language that you care to hear his/her ideas and, as a result, to know him/her better;

2) Ask Questions for Clarification — this allows you to hear your partner’s true thoughts and feelings about the matter being communicated.

3) HEAR What Your Partner Is Saying — rather than thinking about what you want to reply/rebutt, focus on each word that your partner is sharing.  This conveys that you care.

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Relationship: Relationship Sexuality

Tips to Enhance Your Relationship Sexuality & Intimacy:
  1. Talk with one another about your relationship
  2. Talk with one another about your intimacy
  3. Talk with one another about your sexual relationship
  4. Give frequent hugs
  5. Touch whenever passing one another

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Intimacy Romance

Sexuality: Relationship Sexuality

Tips to Enhance Your Relationship Sexuality & Intimacy:
Have you been feeling dissatisfied with your relationship?  Do you wish that you and your partner could go back to your “early days” … when you had just met and were dating?  Would you like to build the passion and intimacy with your partner once again?
Well, stop dreaming and BEGIN to add romance BACK INTO your interactions with your partner!  (Be sure to see our Romance Selections at the end of this post!)
Here are 5 Tips to Enhance Relationship Romance & Sexuality:
1.  TAKE TIME TO THINK ABOUT HIM/HER:  What does s/he like?  What are the ways …
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Sexuality: What to Do … When You Feel No Desire

Sexual desire is a magical, enjoyable and — sometimes — elusive experience.  If lately you have found yourself feeling as though your passion for sex — or your partner — is dimming, here are some VERY IMPORTANT things for you to begin to do … at once!

First of all, get a thorough check up from your physician.  Make certain that you are not experiencing some other health problem that is masquerading as low sexual desire.  Discuss with your doctor any concerns you may have.

Once your physical doctor gives you a clean bill of health, turn your attention to the emotional you — examine your emotions.  Have you been having emotional reactions and keeping them stuffed inside?  Doing so can be blunting your sexual desire.  It’s time to

  1. get clear with yourself about what you are feeling;
  2. put thought into the best way to communicate your emotions; and
  3. come clean and be honest with your partner.

Also, remember to pay careful attention to the mental you — your thoughts.  Have you — subtly — been telling yourself negative messages where your sexuality is concerned?  Remember “self-fulfilling prophecy”?  Be aware:  If you have been feeding yourself negative ideas about your sexual satisfaction, these ideas can be manifesting in low sexual desire.  In order to move OUT of the experience of low sexual desire, it is vitally important that you CHANGE these ideas to affirmative, positive ideas that encourage you to enjoy strong sexual desire once again!